Comments on: Sadness…galore http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/ Mon, 19 Oct 2009 07:28:38 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: s http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/comment-page-1/#comment-1522 s Thu, 15 Oct 2009 23:16:07 +0000 http://thisisalinoor.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-1522 I miss u so much man we all I cry for u shahid n faisal all the time god man why I'm so sorry I miss u so much man we all I cry for u shahid n faisal all the time god man why
I’m so sorry

]]> By: S http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/comment-page-1/#comment-947 S Mon, 15 Jun 2009 15:26:28 +0000 http://thisisalinoor.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-947 A friend just sent me the link to this blog about Rohail (tony) who was like an older brother to me. Having grown up w/his younger sister he was the older brother we were most scared of. As we grew older the fear turned to mutual respect. His untimely death is something that shook us all to our core and something that we could never be prepared for. I flew over a few days later to mourn this loss with the family, find closure and make sense of it all. Nadia was the strong pillar of support and the person holding the fort in a house that had lost all happiness. Her ability to keep going with her head held up high is something that I will always admire. She took charge and made sure that everyone was taken care of. No day goes by without any of us associated with the family praying for them all and for their courage to move forward. A friend just sent me the link to this blog about Rohail (tony) who was like an older brother to me. Having grown up w/his younger sister he was the older brother we were most scared of. As we grew older the fear turned to mutual respect. His untimely death is something that shook us all to our core and something that we could never be prepared for. I flew over a few days later to mourn this loss with the family, find closure and make sense of it all. Nadia was the strong pillar of support and the person holding the fort in a house that had lost all happiness. Her ability to keep going with her head held up high is something that I will always admire. She took charge and made sure that everyone was taken care of. No day goes by without any of us associated with the family praying for them all and for their courage to move forward.

]]> By: OUH http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/comment-page-1/#comment-946 OUH Mon, 15 Jun 2009 14:20:39 +0000 http://thisisalinoor.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-946 In the first sentence, I meant that Tony's death is one of the most difficult things I've experienced. In the first sentence, I meant that Tony’s death is one of the most difficult things I’ve experienced.

]]> By: OUH http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/comment-page-1/#comment-945 OUH Mon, 15 Jun 2009 14:16:39 +0000 http://thisisalinoor.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-945 Zani and Nadia are both sisters to me and Tony (Rohail)'s death has been one of the most difficult things I've done. I was in Islamabad when Zani had come back from Vancouver and Nadia had come back from Lahore. I was flying to London the next morning and I told my parents that I'm going to spend time with Nadia Zani adn the family. We were up till 5 am eating masoom treats that Nadia had brought back with her and chatting constantly and just having a good time. I left their house at 5 am, went home to pack, and went off to the airport. I landed in London and was on the heathrow express train when I got a phone call from Zani and she was hysterically screaming as she had just found out that Tony had a car accident and she was with nadia driving to the hospital. I'll never forget that day and I remember Tony each and every single day. I didnt get a chance to go back for the funeral as I literally had just landed in London but went last month and got to meet the entire family, including nadia who had come from Lahore. They are going through a tough time but I pray everyday that things get better and allah gives them the strength to cope with this loss. I can imagine what you went through with Mandana's older brother passing away and I'm sorry for her loss. I also experienced something similar when my Aunt and cousin passed away in the earthquake. I wrote a blog post about it - check it when you get a chance. the link is pasted below. http://omarulhaq.wordpress.com/2009/04/05/hands-unite-in-pakistan-ouh-2/ Zani and Nadia are both sisters to me and Tony (Rohail)’s death has been one of the most difficult things I’ve done. I was in Islamabad when Zani had come back from Vancouver and Nadia had come back from Lahore. I was flying to London the next morning and I told my parents that I’m going to spend time with Nadia Zani adn the family. We were up till 5 am eating masoom treats that Nadia had brought back with her and chatting constantly and just having a good time. I left their house at 5 am, went home to pack, and went off to the airport. I landed in London and was on the heathrow express train when I got a phone call from Zani and she was hysterically screaming as she had just found out that Tony had a car accident and she was with nadia driving to the hospital. I’ll never forget that day and I remember Tony each and every single day. I didnt get a chance to go back for the funeral as I literally had just landed in London but went last month and got to meet the entire family, including nadia who had come from Lahore. They are going through a tough time but I pray everyday that things get better and allah gives them the strength to cope with this loss.

I can imagine what you went through with Mandana’s older brother passing away and I’m sorry for her loss.

I also experienced something similar when my Aunt and cousin passed away in the earthquake. I wrote a blog post about it – check it when you get a chance. the link is pasted below.

http://omarulhaq.wordpress.com/2009/04/05/hands-unite-in-pakistan-ouh-2/

]]> By: m.uzair.baig http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/comment-page-1/#comment-948 m.uzair.baig Fri, 22 May 2009 05:41:31 +0000 http://thisisalinoor.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-948 i first time relized that singers also live a very pain full and strugling life loveu ali noorr m.uzair.baig i first time relized that singers also live a very pain full and strugling life loveu ali noorr m.uzair.baig

]]> By: Faisal.K http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/comment-page-1/#comment-936 Faisal.K Mon, 26 Jan 2009 21:10:47 +0000 http://thisisalinoor.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-936 Sometimes it takes a day or a year...the tough part is getting over the pain when it starts...whenever it starts. I hope your friend has the courage to do so. Sometimes it takes a day or a year…the tough part is getting over the pain when it starts…whenever it starts. I hope your friend has the courage to do so.

]]> By: Nikki http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/comment-page-1/#comment-937 Nikki Fri, 23 Jan 2009 21:39:57 +0000 http://thisisalinoor.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-937 The worst part of somebody's life would be, breaking the news of someone's closest death. I have seen my Mum breaking down at times when my Nani and Nana died especially at my eldest khala's death , but most of all hearing about someone who died at a young age is indeed shocking and depressive. May Allah bless their souls InshAllah Ameen. The worst part of somebody’s life would be, breaking the news of someone’s closest death. I have seen my Mum breaking down at times when my Nani and Nana died especially at my eldest khala’s death , but most of all hearing about someone who died at a young age is indeed shocking and depressive.

May Allah bless their souls InshAllah Ameen.

]]> By: Ali Noor http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/comment-page-1/#comment-950 Ali Noor Mon, 12 Jan 2009 21:21:33 +0000 http://thisisalinoor.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-950 bro...why do u need to apoligize...you are a well wisher..... pray for the souls ....cheers and love bro…why do u need to apoligize…you are a well wisher…..
pray for the souls

….cheers and love

]]> By: Qamar http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/comment-page-1/#comment-949 Qamar Mon, 12 Jan 2009 10:57:01 +0000 http://thisisalinoor.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-949 i remember that day, the day Mandana's brother passed away. i was supposed to pick you guys up that morning and i bumped into Mandana as she came out of the lift. i said hello to her in a very casual manner without knowing what had happened, till xulfi informed me. i felt so embarassed and pathetic then. i'd like to apologise for that day to you both and your family. i remember that day, the day Mandana’s brother passed away. i was supposed to pick you guys up that morning and i bumped into Mandana as she came out of the lift. i said hello to her in a very casual manner without knowing what had happened, till xulfi informed me. i felt so embarassed and pathetic then.

i’d like to apologise for that day to you both and your family.

]]> By: Arsalan http://www.alinoor.com/2009/01/07/sadnessgalore/comment-page-1/#comment-944 Arsalan Sat, 10 Jan 2009 22:03:50 +0000 http://thisisalinoor.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-944 Oh God, I am really sad to know about these young deaths. I couldn't stop water coming into my eyes:( May Allah forgive these young souls and give saber to their family It happens some time when you just can't control your emtions,. I couldn't stop my self to cry when Ahmad Faraz died..and some other people whom i never met ..I just know them with the refrence of some one.. May Allah grant all our love ones in Janaah .. Ameen Oh God, I am really sad to know about these young deaths. I couldn’t stop water coming into my eyes:(

May Allah forgive these young souls and give saber to their family

It happens some time when you just can’t control your emtions,. I couldn’t stop my self to cry when Ahmad Faraz died..and some other people whom i never met ..I just know them with the refrence of some one..

May Allah grant all our love ones in Janaah .. Ameen

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